I like your idea (and agree) that it’s best to hide the veggies when the children are younger, and then, as they grow, explain your methods. Also, with respect to your own kids & having them taste the food first, I often do that, too.

Here’s why I tried the pureeing experiment when my son already eats carrots: my son eats them but my daughter almost never does. So, I wanted to make one meal that incorporated the veggies. I was hoping
they would both enjoy the dish. I just haven’t had much luck.

Thanks, again, for sharing your thoughts.

With my own children the policy was the food had to be tasted first, form an opinion, and then they were told what it was. That way they did not have a preconceived idea of how it would taste. I don’t understand why someone with a child that already is willing to eat carrots in his food would want to puree vegetables first.

As the ‘cook’ in the family, I made it a pratice long ago to serve what I toil to plan, purchase and prepare and feel absolutely no obligation to explain what it is. I expect those who share the meal to offer me the courtesy of at least trying the dish before forming an attitude about what it is. Cooking has become somewhat of a lost art, so give those of us who are able to make is a daily event a break – and offer up some trust.

My son always says ‘ mom, you never have anything to eat’ as he scours through the pantry looking for easy snack foods and then always marvels at the hot meal that may appear before him an hour later. Where did THAT come from? And cleaned plates and second helpings are common at my table.

It’s not a matter of deception, it is a matter of common sense. Healthful foods do not come in bright packages straight off the shelf, they are carefully prepared usually from scratch.

Is it any wonder why so many struggle with obesity, diabetes and a host of other problems brought on by eating unhealthy foods?

My response was sparked by the woman who wrote in ‘Decidedly Disappointed’ by having served recipes from the cookbook. She apparently informed her children and husband PRIOR to serving them a new recipe. Gimme a break! How long has she been married and how long has she been a mom? It’s not rocket surgery! Here’s the deal – you tell them what’s in it but only AFTER they agree to try it. And remember – the bigger deal you make out if it, the bigger struggle it will be for you.

So hush up and eat your vegetables

J L R

[Thanks for commenting, Stephen. Maybe your wife would like the cookbook!! I think it's fine for younger kids (and their tolerant dads!).]